"I grew up in the 1970s, but I don't think a whole lot had changed from the '60s. Oh, it had changed in the law books - but not in the kitchens of white homes"
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The subtext is pointed: white Americans could accept integration as an idea while maintaining segregation as a practice, especially when the practice was convenient. The kitchen is also a stage for moral self-deception. You can insist you’re not racist while still outsourcing your home’s comfort to a Black woman who enters through the back door and leaves with too little pay and too much knowledge.
Context matters: Stockett is a novelist whose work trades in the afterlife of Jim Crow, the way “the ’60s” became a myth of resolution. Her speaker’s shrug - “I don’t think a whole lot had changed” - cuts against that myth, reminding readers that historical eras don’t end on schedule. Laws can flip in a year; social permission structures can take generations, especially when they’re reinforced by routine, politeness, and the silent power of being “at home.”
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| Topic | Equality |
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Stockett, Kathryn. (2026, January 16). I grew up in the 1970s, but I don't think a whole lot had changed from the '60s. Oh, it had changed in the law books - but not in the kitchens of white homes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-in-the-1970s-but-i-dont-think-a-whole-92670/
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Stockett, Kathryn. "I grew up in the 1970s, but I don't think a whole lot had changed from the '60s. Oh, it had changed in the law books - but not in the kitchens of white homes." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-in-the-1970s-but-i-dont-think-a-whole-92670/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I grew up in the 1970s, but I don't think a whole lot had changed from the '60s. Oh, it had changed in the law books - but not in the kitchens of white homes." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-in-the-1970s-but-i-dont-think-a-whole-92670/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

