"I grew up playing war. We threw dirt and rocks at each other. We'd lead attacks. We'd break up into squads. It became a neighborhood thing for a while, our neighborhood against the other neighborhood. There was always a war breaking out somewhere"
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The subtext is less about personal nostalgia than about cultural osmosis. Elliott grew up in the long shadow of Cold War media and postwar mythology, when war stories were everywhere: on television, in movies, in comic books, in adult conversation. So the last line lands like a shrug with teeth: "There was always a war breaking out somewhere". The syntax makes global conflict feel like weather, a constant background condition that seeps into the sandbox. If grown-ups treat war as perpetual, kids will stage it as inevitable.
As an actor, Elliott is also implicitly talking about performance: war as a role children learn early, complete with props and choreography. The neighborhood-versus-neighborhood escalation mirrors real geopolitics in miniature, exposing how easily identity forms around opposition. The memory works because it refuses to sanitize. It captures the unsettling truth that violence can be communal, even fun, long before anyone understands its cost.
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| Topic | War |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Elliott, David James. (2026, January 16). I grew up playing war. We threw dirt and rocks at each other. We'd lead attacks. We'd break up into squads. It became a neighborhood thing for a while, our neighborhood against the other neighborhood. There was always a war breaking out somewhere. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-playing-war-we-threw-dirt-and-rocks-at-104178/
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Elliott, David James. "I grew up playing war. We threw dirt and rocks at each other. We'd lead attacks. We'd break up into squads. It became a neighborhood thing for a while, our neighborhood against the other neighborhood. There was always a war breaking out somewhere." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-playing-war-we-threw-dirt-and-rocks-at-104178/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I grew up playing war. We threw dirt and rocks at each other. We'd lead attacks. We'd break up into squads. It became a neighborhood thing for a while, our neighborhood against the other neighborhood. There was always a war breaking out somewhere." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-playing-war-we-threw-dirt-and-rocks-at-104178/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.
