"I grew up with a lot of guys, some of them are dead, some of them are this and some of them that, and some of them very, very powerful, bright young men, who became this instead of that simply because of a lack of guidance - that's all"
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The intent is almost prosecutorial, but aimed at circumstance rather than individuals. By stacking vague placeholders (“this instead of that”), Keitel makes the point without naming crimes, careers, or addictions. That vagueness is strategic: the details don’t matter as much as the pattern. The pattern is that talent and intelligence aren’t protective factors when no adult is steering the wheel. “Very, very powerful, bright young men” is the gut-punch phrase because it undercuts the American comfort story that ability naturally rises. Keitel’s saying he watched gifted kids drift into catastrophe or hard power, not because they lacked character, but because they lacked a map.
The subtext is a kind of survivor’s guilt with working-class clarity. “That’s all” lands like an actor’s cold read of a devastating line: understated, almost defensive, as if he’s bracing for the objection that guidance is too simple an explanation. Coming from an actor whose most famous roles orbit crime, masculinity, and damaged mentorship, the context sharpens: Keitel isn’t romanticizing the streets; he’s indicting the absence of people who show you what to do with your raw potential before the world does it for you.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Keitel, Harvey. (2026, January 17). I grew up with a lot of guys, some of them are dead, some of them are this and some of them that, and some of them very, very powerful, bright young men, who became this instead of that simply because of a lack of guidance - that's all. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-a-lot-of-guys-some-of-them-are-54347/
Chicago Style
Keitel, Harvey. "I grew up with a lot of guys, some of them are dead, some of them are this and some of them that, and some of them very, very powerful, bright young men, who became this instead of that simply because of a lack of guidance - that's all." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-a-lot-of-guys-some-of-them-are-54347/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I grew up with a lot of guys, some of them are dead, some of them are this and some of them that, and some of them very, very powerful, bright young men, who became this instead of that simply because of a lack of guidance - that's all." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-a-lot-of-guys-some-of-them-are-54347/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











