"I grew up with the mindset that when you get home from work, you go to dinner and watch a movie. I don't want to be going to a club and taking off my panties"
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The first half is almost aggressively ordinary: dinner, a movie, home. That domestic rhythm functions like a shield, a way of claiming adulthood and stability in an industry that sells perpetual youth and perpetual access. “I grew up with the mindset” signals that this isn’t a sudden PR pivot; it’s a values script inherited from family, class, maybe even a conservative idea of what a “good life” looks like. She’s framing her preference as upbringing, not judgment, which helps her avoid sounding like she’s shaming other women while still drawing a hard line.
There’s also an image-management subtext: Hollywood rewards the “cool girl” who parties, but it also punishes women for looking too available. Lively splits the difference by leaning into relatability and refusing the more predatory reading of celebrity social life. It’s less about hating clubs than about declining the role the public keeps writing for her: the sexy spectacle when she’d rather be the person who goes home.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lively, Blake. (2026, January 17). I grew up with the mindset that when you get home from work, you go to dinner and watch a movie. I don't want to be going to a club and taking off my panties. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-the-mindset-that-when-you-get-home-48850/
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Lively, Blake. "I grew up with the mindset that when you get home from work, you go to dinner and watch a movie. I don't want to be going to a club and taking off my panties." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-the-mindset-that-when-you-get-home-48850/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I grew up with the mindset that when you get home from work, you go to dinner and watch a movie. I don't want to be going to a club and taking off my panties." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-the-mindset-that-when-you-get-home-48850/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.



