"I grind my teeth and keep my thumbs in so tight that I've dislocated them, just not to scream. Sometimes as an actor one is lucky enough to be asked to scream"
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Then she flips it with a dry, performer’s gratitude: “Sometimes as an actor one is lucky enough to be asked to scream.” Lucky. As if the industry occasionally grants a permit for an emotion everyone is already carrying. The subtext is that acting can be a sanctioned release valve in a culture that polices loudness, mess, and complaint. The scream isn’t just a plot beat; it’s permission to stop translating feeling into charm.
Contextually, Birkin sits at the intersection of 60s-70s pop mythmaking and arthouse seriousness - a woman turned icon, scrutinized for her body and voice. The quote needles that myth. It suggests that the real performance wasn’t on set; it was the daily labor of staying palatable. Acting, for once, offers the honest luxury of being unpalatable on purpose.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anxiety |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Birkin, Jane. (2026, January 16). I grind my teeth and keep my thumbs in so tight that I've dislocated them, just not to scream. Sometimes as an actor one is lucky enough to be asked to scream. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grind-my-teeth-and-keep-my-thumbs-in-so-tight-113054/
Chicago Style
Birkin, Jane. "I grind my teeth and keep my thumbs in so tight that I've dislocated them, just not to scream. Sometimes as an actor one is lucky enough to be asked to scream." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grind-my-teeth-and-keep-my-thumbs-in-so-tight-113054/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I grind my teeth and keep my thumbs in so tight that I've dislocated them, just not to scream. Sometimes as an actor one is lucky enough to be asked to scream." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grind-my-teeth-and-keep-my-thumbs-in-so-tight-113054/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.




