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Motherhood Quote by Usher Raymond

"I guess I had it made. My mother gave me advice - she taught me that women like to be looked in the eye - and my grandmother gave me condoms"

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Usher delivers the line like a backstage confession that doubles as a mission statement for millennial R&B: be smooth, be respectful, and be prepared. The comic snap comes from the neat division of labor between the women who raised him. Mom handles the romance manual - eye contact as a shorthand for dignity, attention, and consent-adjacent respect. Grandma handles the logistics - protection, consequences, reality. Put together, they form an unusually frank, family-approved blueprint for heterosexual courtship that clashes (productively) with the genre’s long history of hazy boundaries and bravado.

The intent isn’t just shock value; it’s credibility. By framing his “I had it made” as intergenerational guidance, Usher positions himself as a heartthrob who didn’t stumble into maturity by accident. The subtext is that masculinity can be coached, even domesticated, without losing swagger. He gets to signal “I’m not a creep” and “I’m still having sex” in the same breath, which is basically the tightrope pop male stars walk when their audience spans teens, parents, and everyone in between.

Contextually, it reads like early-2000s celebrity candor: a little raunch, a little wholesome, and a lot of image management. The punchline isn’t the condoms; it’s the idea that the women in his life equipped him to navigate desire with both charm and accountability.

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Usher Raymond

Usher Raymond (born October 14, 1978) is a Musician from USA.

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