"I guess I had it made. My mother gave me advice - she taught me that women like to be looked in the eye - and my grandmother gave me condoms"
About this Quote
The intent isn’t just shock value; it’s credibility. By framing his “I had it made” as intergenerational guidance, Usher positions himself as a heartthrob who didn’t stumble into maturity by accident. The subtext is that masculinity can be coached, even domesticated, without losing swagger. He gets to signal “I’m not a creep” and “I’m still having sex” in the same breath, which is basically the tightrope pop male stars walk when their audience spans teens, parents, and everyone in between.
Contextually, it reads like early-2000s celebrity candor: a little raunch, a little wholesome, and a lot of image management. The punchline isn’t the condoms; it’s the idea that the women in his life equipped him to navigate desire with both charm and accountability.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Raymond, Usher. (2026, January 16). I guess I had it made. My mother gave me advice - she taught me that women like to be looked in the eye - and my grandmother gave me condoms. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-guess-i-had-it-made-my-mother-gave-me-advice--104321/
Chicago Style
Raymond, Usher. "I guess I had it made. My mother gave me advice - she taught me that women like to be looked in the eye - and my grandmother gave me condoms." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-guess-i-had-it-made-my-mother-gave-me-advice--104321/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I guess I had it made. My mother gave me advice - she taught me that women like to be looked in the eye - and my grandmother gave me condoms." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-guess-i-had-it-made-my-mother-gave-me-advice--104321/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.





