"I guess that's what I was: a set of abs. And they lit the abs and shot the abs and sent the abs on their way. The photographer didn't look at my face once. I was humiliated"
About this Quote
The subtext is sharper than simple vanity or insecurity. Bergin is describing a hierarchy of attention: the photographer’s gaze doesn’t even wander toward his face, the traditional seat of identity and emotion. The message is clear without being spoken: your personhood isn’t part of the deliverable. That’s why “humiliated” hits. Humiliation isn’t merely embarrassment; it’s a social demotion, the realization that you’re being treated as less than fully human in front of other people who consider this normal.
Context matters here because Bergin’s career is tied to an era when men were increasingly commodified in glossy advertising and entertainment, but often without the language afforded to women’s objectification. The quote quietly flips the script: the male body can also be reduced to parts, and the supposed privilege of being desired doesn’t cancel the sting of being erased. The intent reads like a confession that doubles as an indictment: the industry didn’t just photograph him; it edited him down to a feature.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sadness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bergin, Michael. (2026, January 15). I guess that's what I was: a set of abs. And they lit the abs and shot the abs and sent the abs on their way. The photographer didn't look at my face once. I was humiliated. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-guess-thats-what-i-was-a-set-of-abs-and-they-152914/
Chicago Style
Bergin, Michael. "I guess that's what I was: a set of abs. And they lit the abs and shot the abs and sent the abs on their way. The photographer didn't look at my face once. I was humiliated." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-guess-thats-what-i-was-a-set-of-abs-and-they-152914/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I guess that's what I was: a set of abs. And they lit the abs and shot the abs and sent the abs on their way. The photographer didn't look at my face once. I was humiliated." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-guess-thats-what-i-was-a-set-of-abs-and-they-152914/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.

