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Marriage Quote by Ricki Lake

"I had a really kind of yucky divorce and it was really challenging to get over that"

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The power of Ricki Lake's line is how stubbornly unglamorous it is. A celebrity divorce could be packaged as reinvention, empowerment, a clean narrative arc with a haircut and a press cycle. Instead she reaches for "yucky" - a word that sounds almost childish, like something you say when you don't yet have the vocabulary for betrayal, humiliation, or grief. That choice is the tell. It's not evasive so much as protective: a soft, socially acceptable wrapper around a mess she doesn't want to sensationalize.

"I had" frames the divorce as something that happened to her, an event she endured rather than a story she controlled. Then comes the double-stacking of "really", a verbal insistence that signals she's bracing against minimization. Public-facing pain gets flattened fast, especially for women whose careers have historically been built on relatability and confession. Lake knows the economy of oversharing because she helped mainstream it in daytime TV. Here, she borrows the cadence of confession while withholding the lurid details that audiences are trained to expect.

The subtext is less "poor me" than "don't romanticize this". Divorce isn't a plot twist; it's administrative, emotional, and often degrading in ways that don't make for good sound bites. Calling it "yucky" refuses the prestige of trauma-talk and the polish of PR. It lands because it sounds like someone trying to be honest in a culture that rewards either silence or spectacle, with very little room for plain, awkward truth.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lake, Ricki. (n.d.). I had a really kind of yucky divorce and it was really challenging to get over that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-a-really-kind-of-yucky-divorce-and-it-was-96875/

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Lake, Ricki. "I had a really kind of yucky divorce and it was really challenging to get over that." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-a-really-kind-of-yucky-divorce-and-it-was-96875/.

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"I had a really kind of yucky divorce and it was really challenging to get over that." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-a-really-kind-of-yucky-divorce-and-it-was-96875/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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Ricki Lake (born September 21, 1968) is a Entertainer from USA.

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