"I had a strong, really good upbringing, not puritanical"
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That two-step matters because Selleck’s brand has always traded on credibility. From Magnum’s relaxed competence to the Blue Bloods-era patriarch vibe, he sells authority best when it feels humane. The phrase “not puritanical” keeps him on the right side of modern sensibilities: he can be traditional without being punitive, principled without being sanctimonious. It’s a way to make conservatism (or at least conventionality) sound like emotional maturity rather than ideology.
Contextually, this is a post-’60s, post-therapy-culture move: celebrities are expected to narrate their childhoods as psychological origin stories. Selleck offers one, but refuses the trauma template. He’s saying: I wasn’t damaged into greatness; I was steadied into it. The subtext is also defensive in a gentle way. An actor with a rugged, old-school masculinity has to reassure audiences that his stability won’t curdle into moral policing.
The repetition - “strong, really good” - is conversational, almost dad-like, which reinforces the point. He’s not pitching a doctrine. He’s pitching a temperament.
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"I had a strong, really good upbringing, not puritanical." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-a-strong-really-good-upbringing-not-152655/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



