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Birthdays Quote by Diane von Furstenberg

"I had arranged a birthday party for him and my children, who are all Aquarians. Instead, we got married. I ran out of excuses. It was just us and my children"

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The line lands because it treats a life-altering decision with the breezy logistics of a social calendar, then lets the deeper truth leak through. Diane von Furstenberg, a designer who built a brand on confident femininity and self-authorship, frames marriage not as destiny but as an almost accidental escalation: a birthday party that becomes a wedding. That flip is the point. It punctures the cultural script of romance as a grand, choreographed event and replaces it with something more intimate and, quietly, more radical: commitment as a practical choice made in real time.

“I ran out of excuses” is doing heavy lifting. It suggests a long prelude of hesitation, deflection, maybe self-protectiveness - the kind of emotional negotiation adults do when love arrives with complications. The detail about her children “all Aquarians” reads like playful self-mythology: astrology as a shorthand for family identity, a way to make a blended household feel coherent. It’s also a wink at how we use narratives (signs, timing, “when it feels right”) to manage uncertainty.

Then comes the understated heart of it: “It was just us and my children.” Not “family and friends,” not spectacle, not society’s gaze. For a public figure, that privacy is a statement. The subtext is that the real ceremony isn’t the dress or the guest list - it’s the choice to fold a partner into an existing life, with the kids centered, not sidelined. The quote works because it makes romance sound like adulthood: improvised, unsentimental, and still tender.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Furstenberg, Diane von. (2026, January 18). I had arranged a birthday party for him and my children, who are all Aquarians. Instead, we got married. I ran out of excuses. It was just us and my children. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-arranged-a-birthday-party-for-him-and-my-23239/

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Furstenberg, Diane von. "I had arranged a birthday party for him and my children, who are all Aquarians. Instead, we got married. I ran out of excuses. It was just us and my children." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-arranged-a-birthday-party-for-him-and-my-23239/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had arranged a birthday party for him and my children, who are all Aquarians. Instead, we got married. I ran out of excuses. It was just us and my children." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-arranged-a-birthday-party-for-him-and-my-23239/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Diane von Furstenberg (born December 31, 1946) is a Designer from Belgium.

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