"I had arranged a birthday party for him and my children, who are all Aquarians. Instead, we got married. I ran out of excuses. It was just us and my children"
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“I ran out of excuses” is doing heavy lifting. It suggests a long prelude of hesitation, deflection, maybe self-protectiveness - the kind of emotional negotiation adults do when love arrives with complications. The detail about her children “all Aquarians” reads like playful self-mythology: astrology as a shorthand for family identity, a way to make a blended household feel coherent. It’s also a wink at how we use narratives (signs, timing, “when it feels right”) to manage uncertainty.
Then comes the understated heart of it: “It was just us and my children.” Not “family and friends,” not spectacle, not society’s gaze. For a public figure, that privacy is a statement. The subtext is that the real ceremony isn’t the dress or the guest list - it’s the choice to fold a partner into an existing life, with the kids centered, not sidelined. The quote works because it makes romance sound like adulthood: improvised, unsentimental, and still tender.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wedding |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Furstenberg, Diane von. (2026, January 18). I had arranged a birthday party for him and my children, who are all Aquarians. Instead, we got married. I ran out of excuses. It was just us and my children. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-arranged-a-birthday-party-for-him-and-my-23239/
Chicago Style
Furstenberg, Diane von. "I had arranged a birthday party for him and my children, who are all Aquarians. Instead, we got married. I ran out of excuses. It was just us and my children." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-arranged-a-birthday-party-for-him-and-my-23239/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had arranged a birthday party for him and my children, who are all Aquarians. Instead, we got married. I ran out of excuses. It was just us and my children." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-arranged-a-birthday-party-for-him-and-my-23239/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








