"I had been gullible, naive, soft, pliable. That's why I got taken advantage of. To survive, you have to have a tough skin"
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Carrere’s line lands like a hard edit to a softer draft of the self: four adjectives that read almost tender on their own - “gullible, naive, soft, pliable” - then the blunt accounting: “That’s why I got taken advantage of.” It’s not self-pity; it’s a postmortem. The cadence matters. She stacks vulnerabilities as if she’s inventorying what the world will price and exploit, then converts that inventory into a lesson with the grim efficiency of someone who’s done reliving it.
The subtext is an industry that trains people, especially young women, to confuse openness with professionalism. “Pliable” is the tell. In Hollywood, pliability can be sold as being “easy to work with,” a compliment that often masks a demand: don’t push back, don’t name the power imbalance, don’t make the room uncomfortable. When she says she was “taken advantage of,” she’s implying a system that doesn’t merely allow predation but quietly rewards it.
“To survive, you have to have a tough skin” is pragmatic, not triumphant. It acknowledges the compromise baked into endurance: the armor that protects you also distances you from the very softness that made you human. The intent isn’t to romanticize hardness; it’s to warn about the cost of staying soft in spaces that mistake it for consent. In the post-#MeToo cultural landscape, the quote reads as both confession and caution sign - one person’s biography, but also a thumbnail sketch of how power teaches its lessons.
The subtext is an industry that trains people, especially young women, to confuse openness with professionalism. “Pliable” is the tell. In Hollywood, pliability can be sold as being “easy to work with,” a compliment that often masks a demand: don’t push back, don’t name the power imbalance, don’t make the room uncomfortable. When she says she was “taken advantage of,” she’s implying a system that doesn’t merely allow predation but quietly rewards it.
“To survive, you have to have a tough skin” is pragmatic, not triumphant. It acknowledges the compromise baked into endurance: the armor that protects you also distances you from the very softness that made you human. The intent isn’t to romanticize hardness; it’s to warn about the cost of staying soft in spaces that mistake it for consent. In the post-#MeToo cultural landscape, the quote reads as both confession and caution sign - one person’s biography, but also a thumbnail sketch of how power teaches its lessons.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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