"I had been out there long enough. I had not seen my family for four years"
About this Quote
The second sentence hits harder because it refuses metaphor. Not seeing your family for four years is the kind of fact that cancels out medals, applause, and the mythology of toughness. It implies an emotional ledger that doesn't balance: whatever "out there" was -- war, distance, duty, the road-show grind of fighting -- it demanded the one currency you can't win back.
Ross's broader context sharpens the edge. He was not just an athlete; he was a working-class Jewish kid from Chicago who became a star in an era that treated fighters as disposable entertainment, then later served in World War II and reportedly returned struggling with the costs of that service. The quote reads like a private moment that escaped into public record: the tough guy admitting what toughness actually buys you. Its intent is closure, but the subtext is accusation. Four years is the sentence. Family is what got taken.
Quote Details
| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ross, Barney. (2026, January 16). I had been out there long enough. I had not seen my family for four years. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-been-out-there-long-enough-i-had-not-seen-111337/
Chicago Style
Ross, Barney. "I had been out there long enough. I had not seen my family for four years." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-been-out-there-long-enough-i-had-not-seen-111337/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had been out there long enough. I had not seen my family for four years." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-been-out-there-long-enough-i-had-not-seen-111337/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.






