"I had been, you know, held in the closet for two months and, you know, abused in all manner of ways. I was very good at doing what I was told"
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Then comes the line that does the most cultural work: "I was very good at doing what I was told". It reads like obedience, but it’s also an argument. In one sentence she reframes compliance as survival skill, not moral failure. The subtext is a plea against the tidy public narrative that followed her kidnapping: heiress turned radical, victim turned accomplice. Hearst’s case became a Rorschach test for America’s anxieties about women, class, and agency in the 1970s. Was she brainwashed? Performing? Choosing? Her words don’t hand over a clean answer, and that’s the point.
The intent isn’t to win sympathy with melodrama; it’s to describe coercion as a system that trains you, efficiently, into cooperation. The chilling part is the professionalism of it: "very good", like she’s reporting competence. That’s how power likes its victims to speak - calmly, plausibly, and just uncertain enough to be doubted.
Quote Details
| Topic | Fear |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hearst, Patty. (2026, January 16). I had been, you know, held in the closet for two months and, you know, abused in all manner of ways. I was very good at doing what I was told. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-been-you-know-held-in-the-closet-for-two-91000/
Chicago Style
Hearst, Patty. "I had been, you know, held in the closet for two months and, you know, abused in all manner of ways. I was very good at doing what I was told." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-been-you-know-held-in-the-closet-for-two-91000/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had been, you know, held in the closet for two months and, you know, abused in all manner of ways. I was very good at doing what I was told." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-been-you-know-held-in-the-closet-for-two-91000/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

