"I had both male and female heroes"
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In one plain sentence, Sally Ride quietly punctures a whole era’s worth of assumptions about who gets to be “inspiring.” “I had both male and female heroes” sounds almost incidental, but that’s the point: she refuses to perform gratitude for being “the first,” and instead normalizes a world where admiration isn’t gated by gender. Coming from an astronaut who was repeatedly asked on national television whether space would mess up her makeup or reproductive organs, the line reads like a controlled burn against a culture that tried to make her an exception.
The intent is pragmatic, not slogan-y. Ride isn’t arguing that women need women-only role models; she’s asserting that competence, courage, and curiosity are portable qualities. The subtext is a rebuke to the tokenization trap: if a girl can only look up to women, then women’s ambition is always secondhand and conditional. By claiming a mixed pantheon of heroes, she implicitly claims full citizenship in the human story of exploration.
Context does the heavy lifting. Ride emerged from NASA’s first class to include women, at a moment when institutions were scrambling to “include” without changing their default image. Her phrasing sidesteps culture-war heat and lands a deeper truth: representation matters, but so does the freedom to choose your influences without apologizing or making a political statement out of basic admiration. It’s a small sentence that smuggles in a big standard: the future should feel ordinary.
The intent is pragmatic, not slogan-y. Ride isn’t arguing that women need women-only role models; she’s asserting that competence, courage, and curiosity are portable qualities. The subtext is a rebuke to the tokenization trap: if a girl can only look up to women, then women’s ambition is always secondhand and conditional. By claiming a mixed pantheon of heroes, she implicitly claims full citizenship in the human story of exploration.
Context does the heavy lifting. Ride emerged from NASA’s first class to include women, at a moment when institutions were scrambling to “include” without changing their default image. Her phrasing sidesteps culture-war heat and lands a deeper truth: representation matters, but so does the freedom to choose your influences without apologizing or making a political statement out of basic admiration. It’s a small sentence that smuggles in a big standard: the future should feel ordinary.
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Ride, Sally. (2026, January 18). I had both male and female heroes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-both-male-and-female-heroes-20662/
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Ride, Sally. "I had both male and female heroes." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-both-male-and-female-heroes-20662/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had both male and female heroes." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-both-male-and-female-heroes-20662/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.
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