"I had no idea that he was going to write that, but I've always believed that insecurity was what would keep you always in your innocence, no matter what the business did"
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The key move is her rebrand of "insecurity" from a weakness into a protective force. In most success myths, confidence is the fuel and insecurity is the leak. Kirkland flips it: insecurity becomes a kind of moral and emotional ballast, an ongoing awareness that you might be wrong, that you could still be learning, that the spotlight has not made you omniscient. That is what she means by "innocence" - not naivete, but a refusal to calcify into cynicism.
"Whatever the business did" is the hard-edged part. She is talking about an industry that rewards performance off-screen as much as on it: the hustle, the ego, the survival tactics. The subtext is survival without soul-loss. Insecurity, for Kirkland, is a way to stay porous enough to act truthfully and to live without believing your own press.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kirkland, Sally. (2026, January 16). I had no idea that he was going to write that, but I've always believed that insecurity was what would keep you always in your innocence, no matter what the business did. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-no-idea-that-he-was-going-to-write-that-but-101940/
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Kirkland, Sally. "I had no idea that he was going to write that, but I've always believed that insecurity was what would keep you always in your innocence, no matter what the business did." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-no-idea-that-he-was-going-to-write-that-but-101940/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had no idea that he was going to write that, but I've always believed that insecurity was what would keep you always in your innocence, no matter what the business did." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-no-idea-that-he-was-going-to-write-that-but-101940/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.




