"I had said no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him about his saucy language. It had never gotten to this level until I came back"
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“Saucy language” is doing double duty. On its face it’s almost quaint, a euphemism that could belong to an old sitcom. Underneath, it signals the social pressure to downplay harassment as “banter,” to keep the vocabulary small so the problem stays manageable. If you call it “saucy,” you’re already halfway to being told you’re overreacting.
Then comes the pivot: “It had never gotten to this level until I came back.” That clause carries the politics of access. Returning suggests a workplace, a set, a power dynamic where absence and presence change the temperature - where a woman’s re-entry becomes an invitation in someone else’s mind, or where prior restraint drops once the offender senses vulnerability, leverage, or complacency from others. The intent isn’t just to report escalation; it’s to mark a pattern: persistence rewarded by circumstance, not consent.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mackris, Andrea. (2026, January 17). I had said no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him about his saucy language. It had never gotten to this level until I came back. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-said-no-to-him-and-no-to-him-and-no-to-him-35362/
Chicago Style
Mackris, Andrea. "I had said no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him about his saucy language. It had never gotten to this level until I came back." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-said-no-to-him-and-no-to-him-and-no-to-him-35362/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had said no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him and no to him about his saucy language. It had never gotten to this level until I came back." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-said-no-to-him-and-no-to-him-and-no-to-him-35362/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




