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Parenting & Family Quote by Bob Seger

"I had the opportunity to be around my kids a lot. I guess I could have kept working, but I had them when I was 47. You only get to see all this stuff once. I just chose to work at home and watch them"

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Seger frames fatherhood like a tour you dont get to reschedule. Coming from a guy whose brand was motion - night moves, rambling men, the long haul - the pivot lands with quiet force. The line isnt selling sentimentality; its admitting a hard, very practical recalculation: when you have kids at 47, the future stops feeling infinite. Time stops being a vibe and becomes a ledger.

The intent is partly defensive, in a way that feels honest. "I guess I could have kept working" acknowledges the expected script for a legacy musician: keep playing, keep earning, keep proving youre still relevant. He hears that pressure and answers it without grandstanding. The subtext is: I didnt retire because I ran out of gas; I stepped off the treadmill because the trade-off finally looked ridiculous. In an industry built on absence - months on the road, hotel rooms, applause as proxy for intimacy - "work at home" is almost a rebellious act.

Theres also an artists eye in "You only get to see all this stuff once". He talks about childhood like a one-time show, a fleeting setlist of firsts. The phrasing keeps it grounded: not "cherish every moment", but "watch them". Its observational, unflashy, a working-class tenderness. In a culture that loves public devotion but rewards constant output, Seger quietly redefines success as being present when the real headline isnt you.

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Seger, Bob. (n.d.). I had the opportunity to be around my kids a lot. I guess I could have kept working, but I had them when I was 47. You only get to see all this stuff once. I just chose to work at home and watch them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-the-opportunity-to-be-around-my-kids-a-lot-139333/

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Seger, Bob. "I had the opportunity to be around my kids a lot. I guess I could have kept working, but I had them when I was 47. You only get to see all this stuff once. I just chose to work at home and watch them." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-the-opportunity-to-be-around-my-kids-a-lot-139333/.

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"I had the opportunity to be around my kids a lot. I guess I could have kept working, but I had them when I was 47. You only get to see all this stuff once. I just chose to work at home and watch them." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-the-opportunity-to-be-around-my-kids-a-lot-139333/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Bob Seger (born May 6, 1945) is a Musician from USA.

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