"I had this whole ritual with my mother making the bed with me inside it, so I would be invisible"
About this Quote
The line lands because it’s funny in the way a lot of family stories are funny: absurdly specific, almost cartoonish, until you feel what it’s actually doing. “So I would be invisible” is a child’s language for a very adult wish: not to be a target, not to be evaluated, not to take up space at the wrong moment. It also points to a complicity that’s tender and unsettling at once. The mother isn’t telling him to face the world; she’s helping him vanish from it. That can read as love, as enabling, or as the only available form of care in a house where visibility has consequences.
Coming from a musician, it also echoes the performer’s paradox: the kid trained in disappearance grows up to make a living out of being looked at. The bed-sheet invisibility trick becomes an origin story for a public self built over a private need to hide.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Zappa, Ahmet. (2026, February 19). I had this whole ritual with my mother making the bed with me inside it, so I would be invisible. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-this-whole-ritual-with-my-mother-making-the-39504/
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Zappa, Ahmet. "I had this whole ritual with my mother making the bed with me inside it, so I would be invisible." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-this-whole-ritual-with-my-mother-making-the-39504/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had this whole ritual with my mother making the bed with me inside it, so I would be invisible." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-this-whole-ritual-with-my-mother-making-the-39504/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.






