"I had to put my kid before my career and all the money I was making. I decided to do the right thing. I was dying inside. If I didn't have my daughter, I would be dead right now, for sure"
About this Quote
“I decided to do the right thing” sounds simple, almost moralistic, until the next line detonates it: “I was dying inside.” The subtext is that the “right thing” didn’t feel heroic. It felt like withdrawal. Like watching your identity evaporate while everyone around you keeps calling it a bad business decision. That tension is what makes the quote work culturally: it punctures the fantasy that choosing family automatically feels wholesome. Sometimes it feels like losing the only language you know.
Then he turns the emotional truth into a hard conditional: “If I didn’t have my daughter, I would be dead.” No metaphor, no wink. It’s an argument against the romantic myth of the tortured artist, the idea that self-destruction is just part of the package. In the late-90s/early-2000s rock ecosystem Welch came out of, excess wasn’t just tolerated, it was branded. He’s saying the real rebellion wasn’t louder music or bigger crowds; it was choosing to stay alive, even if it meant walking away from everything that made him legible to the world.
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| Topic | Daughter |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Welch, Brian. (2026, January 15). I had to put my kid before my career and all the money I was making. I decided to do the right thing. I was dying inside. If I didn't have my daughter, I would be dead right now, for sure. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-to-put-my-kid-before-my-career-and-all-the-169919/
Chicago Style
Welch, Brian. "I had to put my kid before my career and all the money I was making. I decided to do the right thing. I was dying inside. If I didn't have my daughter, I would be dead right now, for sure." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-to-put-my-kid-before-my-career-and-all-the-169919/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had to put my kid before my career and all the money I was making. I decided to do the right thing. I was dying inside. If I didn't have my daughter, I would be dead right now, for sure." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-to-put-my-kid-before-my-career-and-all-the-169919/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





