"I had, toward the last, been shut off from all visitors, and so when the lawyer, Peter A. Hendricks, came and told me that friends of mine were willing to take charge of me if I would rather be with them than in the asylum, I was only too glad to give my consent"
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Bly’s intent is journalistic and surgical. She isn’t performing hysteria or pleading for sympathy; she’s documenting how power operates when it’s normalized into routine. The asylum doesn’t need overt violence in this moment. It uses administrative deprivation, then offers a small mercy that feels enormous precisely because the baseline has been lowered to abandonment. “Only too glad” lands as a devastating understatement: gratitude becomes evidence of coercion’s success.
The subtext is also about credibility. Bly is careful to mention names and roles - “the lawyer, Peter A. Hendricks” - a reporter’s receipt stapled to the story. In an era when women’s testimony was easily dismissed as emotional or unstable, specificity is armor. She is building a record that can survive skepticism.
Context sharpens the edge: Bly’s undercover investigation of Blackwell’s Island was designed to expose institutional cruelty, but this line reveals the more modern horror - how systems manufacture compliance without needing to raise their voice. The asylum releases her not because it’s just, but because external allies reassert jurisdiction over her body. Freedom arrives as paperwork. That’s the point.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bly, Nellie. (2026, January 17). I had, toward the last, been shut off from all visitors, and so when the lawyer, Peter A. Hendricks, came and told me that friends of mine were willing to take charge of me if I would rather be with them than in the asylum, I was only too glad to give my consent. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-toward-the-last-been-shut-off-from-all-70638/
Chicago Style
Bly, Nellie. "I had, toward the last, been shut off from all visitors, and so when the lawyer, Peter A. Hendricks, came and told me that friends of mine were willing to take charge of me if I would rather be with them than in the asylum, I was only too glad to give my consent." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-toward-the-last-been-shut-off-from-all-70638/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had, toward the last, been shut off from all visitors, and so when the lawyer, Peter A. Hendricks, came and told me that friends of mine were willing to take charge of me if I would rather be with them than in the asylum, I was only too glad to give my consent." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-toward-the-last-been-shut-off-from-all-70638/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.




