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"I had years of therapy to recover from this. A lot of it had to with being a people pleaser, being the ultimate good girl. I wanted everyone to like me. I didn't really have a voice. I was afraid of growing up"

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There’s a blunt, almost corrective honesty in Tracey Gold’s phrasing: “I had years of therapy” isn’t a flourish, it’s a receipt. She’s not selling grit or redemption; she’s marking the cost of being shaped into someone else’s idea of “easy to love.” The line about being “the ultimate good girl” lands as both confession and indictment. It’s the kind of compliment the culture hands to young women on a leash: be agreeable, be pretty, be grateful, don’t take up space.

As an actress who grew up in public, Gold is pointing at a specific trap of child stardom and 80s-90s family entertainment: your brand is likability, and your survival depends on keeping adults comfortable. “People pleaser” is the modern, therapy-ready shorthand; “I didn’t really have a voice” is the older, scarier truth underneath it. The subtext is that “voice” isn’t just speaking up on set or in relationships - it’s having permission to want things without apologizing.

“I was afraid of growing up” flips what we usually assume about fame and adulthood. The fear isn’t maturity itself; it’s what growth threatens: the loss of approval, roles, and protective narratives. Growing up means changing, and change is risky when your value has been measured in being “good.” Therapy, here, reads less like self-improvement and more like a slow exit from a contract she never knowingly signed.

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Gold, Tracey. (2026, January 17). I had years of therapy to recover from this. A lot of it had to with being a people pleaser, being the ultimate good girl. I wanted everyone to like me. I didn't really have a voice. I was afraid of growing up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-years-of-therapy-to-recover-from-this-a-lot-58966/

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Gold, Tracey. "I had years of therapy to recover from this. A lot of it had to with being a people pleaser, being the ultimate good girl. I wanted everyone to like me. I didn't really have a voice. I was afraid of growing up." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-years-of-therapy-to-recover-from-this-a-lot-58966/.

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"I had years of therapy to recover from this. A lot of it had to with being a people pleaser, being the ultimate good girl. I wanted everyone to like me. I didn't really have a voice. I was afraid of growing up." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-years-of-therapy-to-recover-from-this-a-lot-58966/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Tracey Gold (born May 16, 1969) is a Actress from USA.

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