"I hate a man who always says "yes" to me. When I say "no" I like a man who also says "no.""
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The second sentence is the punchline and the tell. When Goldwyn says “no,” he wants a man who says “no” too, not because dissent is virtuous in the abstract, but because “no” is where the real work starts. Film production is a machine of constraints - budgets, schedules, egos, censor boards, exhibitors. “No” is the daily language. A collaborator who can push back is proof they’re thinking, protecting the project, and not just protecting their paycheck.
There’s also a subtle performance of authority here. Goldwyn frames himself as someone secure enough to invite disagreement, but only on his terms. He’s not asking for democratic debate; he’s asking for a specific kind of spine: the courage to contradict him when it matters, and the skill to do it without derailing the room. Coming from a producer famous for malapropisms and blunt force pragmatism, it lands as both joke and warning: in Hollywood, enthusiasm is cheap; judgment is the scarce resource.
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Goldwyn, Samuel. (2026, January 16). I hate a man who always says "yes" to me. When I say "no" I like a man who also says "no.". FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-a-man-who-always-says-yes-to-me-when-i-say-83927/
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"I hate a man who always says "yes" to me. When I say "no" I like a man who also says "no."." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-a-man-who-always-says-yes-to-me-when-i-say-83927/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.










