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Love Quote by Harlan Ellison

"I hate being wrong, but I love it when I'm set straight"

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Pride and curiosity collide in that comma. Ellison starts with the blunt, almost childish honesty of “I hate being wrong,” a line that admits ego without dressing it up as humility. Then he yanks the reader into a second clause that should contradict the first but doesn’t: “but I love it when I’m set straight.” The pleasure isn’t in error; it’s in correction. That twist reveals an ethic Ellison built a career on: writing as confrontation, not comfort.

The subtext is a challenge to the polite fiction that smart people are serenely open-minded. Ellison, famously pugnacious, frames intellectual growth as a contact sport. “Set straight” is telling: it implies a force applied from outside, a bracing realignment, like a shoulder snapped back into place. He’s not praising gentle suggestions; he’s praising the moment reality wins. It’s a line that makes room for both the sting of being exposed and the relief of no longer carrying a bad idea.

Context matters because Ellison lived in worlds where certainty is currency: genre scenes, creative rooms, public debates where swagger often substitutes for rigor. The quote reads like a personal operating manual for surviving that ecosystem without calcifying. You can be combative and still be corrigible. You can defend your work ferociously and still want the truth more than the win.

It’s also a quiet argument for better arguments. Correction becomes an act of care, not humiliation: don’t flatter me, fix me.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ellison, Harlan. (2026, January 16). I hate being wrong, but I love it when I'm set straight. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-being-wrong-but-i-love-it-when-im-set-112545/

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Ellison, Harlan. "I hate being wrong, but I love it when I'm set straight." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-being-wrong-but-i-love-it-when-im-set-112545/.

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"I hate being wrong, but I love it when I'm set straight." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-being-wrong-but-i-love-it-when-im-set-112545/. Accessed 31 Mar. 2026.

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Harlan Ellison (May 27, 1934 - June 28, 2018) was a Writer from USA.

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