"I hate it when people come up to me when I'm eating"
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The genius of the phrasing is its blunt domesticity. Not “when I’m off-duty” or “when I’m with my family,” but “when I’m eating,” an activity so ordinary it punctures the fantasy that celebrity is a 24/7 spectacle. Eating is also uniquely vulnerable: you’re distracted, unguarded, literally consuming. To interrupt that moment is to treat a person as a landmark you can tap for a photo, a story, a claim. Bassey’s dislike reads as a refusal to be converted into content.
Context matters because Bassey belongs to an era when fame was both bigger and less managed. Before social media “boundaries” became a brand strategy, stars were expected to absorb public access as the price of admission. Her irritation pushes back against that old contract. It also carries a working performer’s pragmatism: the voice is the job, the body is the instrument, and meals are maintenance. When she says she hates it, you can hear the accumulated fatigue of being perpetually “on,” and the quiet insistence that admiration doesn’t entitle intrusion.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bassey, Shirley. (n.d.). I hate it when people come up to me when I'm eating. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-it-when-people-come-up-to-me-when-im-eating-164994/
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Bassey, Shirley. "I hate it when people come up to me when I'm eating." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-it-when-people-come-up-to-me-when-im-eating-164994/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I hate it when people come up to me when I'm eating." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-it-when-people-come-up-to-me-when-im-eating-164994/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.




