"I hate shaving. It's much easier to just do a little stubble, but my wife and daughter like it when I'm clean-shaven. If you see me with a clean face, then you know I'm in the kissing mode!"
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The line works because it treats appearance not as vanity but as communication. Clean-shaven becomes a signal in the household economy: a visible, low-stakes way to say, I’m present, I’m affectionate, I’m open for closeness. "Kissing mode" is deliberately corny, which is the point. It disarms any whiff of performative husbandry by making the whole thing slightly goofy. He’s not delivering a sermon on partnership; he’s joking about facial hair as family policy.
There’s also a savvy public-facing subtext. Dempsey’s brand has long traded on romantic lead energy, and this reframes that charisma as something safely domesticated. The heartthrob is, conveniently, a family man who shaves on request. In a culture where celebrity husbands are often marketed as either detached or over-curated, he splits the difference: casual enough to complain, considerate enough to comply. The stubble isn’t just stubble; it’s the boundary between self-maintenance and chosen intimacy.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dempsey, Patrick. (2026, January 16). I hate shaving. It's much easier to just do a little stubble, but my wife and daughter like it when I'm clean-shaven. If you see me with a clean face, then you know I'm in the kissing mode! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-shaving-its-much-easier-to-just-do-a-104705/
Chicago Style
Dempsey, Patrick. "I hate shaving. It's much easier to just do a little stubble, but my wife and daughter like it when I'm clean-shaven. If you see me with a clean face, then you know I'm in the kissing mode!" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-shaving-its-much-easier-to-just-do-a-104705/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I hate shaving. It's much easier to just do a little stubble, but my wife and daughter like it when I'm clean-shaven. If you see me with a clean face, then you know I'm in the kissing mode!" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hate-shaving-its-much-easier-to-just-do-a-104705/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








