"I hate that word, mature, but I guess I am growing up"
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Mature is one of those compliment-words that lands like a scolding, and Sheryl Crow treats it exactly that way: with a wince. Her line sets up a tug-of-war between identity and expectation, the kind that dogs pop musicians (especially women) once the industry decides youth is their primary instrument. “I hate that word” is more than personal taste; it’s a refusal of the cultural script where “mature” quietly means less sexy, less relevant, less allowed to be messy. It’s adulthood as a euphemism for being put away.
Then she softens, “but I guess I am growing up,” and that “I guess” matters. It’s conversational, reluctant, a little amused at her own resistance. Crow isn’t offering a triumphant before-and-after; she’s admitting that time is happening to her while she negotiates the terms. Growing up becomes a verb she can live with: active, ongoing, self-directed. Mature, by contrast, is a label applied from the outside, a finish line others get to declare you’ve crossed.
In context, this reads like an artist protecting her freedom to evolve without being domesticated by praise. It captures the pop-cultural paradox: audiences demand authenticity, but they also demand consistency; they want you to change, but not too much, and never in ways that complicate their nostalgia. Crow’s small protest is what keeps the persona human: she’s not “maturing,” she’s still becoming.
Then she softens, “but I guess I am growing up,” and that “I guess” matters. It’s conversational, reluctant, a little amused at her own resistance. Crow isn’t offering a triumphant before-and-after; she’s admitting that time is happening to her while she negotiates the terms. Growing up becomes a verb she can live with: active, ongoing, self-directed. Mature, by contrast, is a label applied from the outside, a finish line others get to declare you’ve crossed.
In context, this reads like an artist protecting her freedom to evolve without being domesticated by praise. It captures the pop-cultural paradox: audiences demand authenticity, but they also demand consistency; they want you to change, but not too much, and never in ways that complicate their nostalgia. Crow’s small protest is what keeps the persona human: she’s not “maturing,” she’s still becoming.
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| Topic | Aging |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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