"I hated her now with a hatred more fatal than indifference because it was the other side of love"
About this Quote
The subtext is possession. You don’t hate someone like this unless you once imagined them as yours - emotionally, sexually, ideologically - and that claim has been violated. It’s “fatal” because it keeps the bond alive, even as it turns it into a weapon. The speaker is admitting dependence while trying to sound sovereign. That contradiction is pure Strindberg: the ego posturing as judge and executioner while secretly begging for the verdict to matter.
Contextually, this fits Strindberg’s late-19th-century dramas and prose, where marriage becomes a laboratory for humiliation, jealousy, and social anxiety. His work is famous (and infamous) for treating heterosexual love as a battleground shaped by gender roles and status, not a refuge from them. The sentence reads like a stage direction for a relationship collapsing in real time: love doesn’t disappear; it switches uniforms. That’s why it stings. It’s not romantic. It’s diagnostic.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Strindberg, August. (2026, January 16). I hated her now with a hatred more fatal than indifference because it was the other side of love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hated-her-now-with-a-hatred-more-fatal-than-135472/
Chicago Style
Strindberg, August. "I hated her now with a hatred more fatal than indifference because it was the other side of love." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hated-her-now-with-a-hatred-more-fatal-than-135472/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I hated her now with a hatred more fatal than indifference because it was the other side of love." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hated-her-now-with-a-hatred-more-fatal-than-135472/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











