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Daily Inspiration Quote by August Strindberg

"I hated her now with a hatred more fatal than indifference because it was the other side of love"

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Strindberg’s genius is how quickly he turns a private emotion into a lethal mechanism. “A hatred more fatal than indifference” isn’t just melodrama; it’s an argument about power. Indifference is clean, antiseptic, socially legible. Hatred, in his hands, is intimacy that’s curdled but still metabolizing the same fuel as love. The line lands because it refuses the comforting idea that hate is the opposite of love. For Strindberg, the opposite is not caring at all. Hate is proof the other person still has access to your nervous system.

The subtext is possession. You don’t hate someone like this unless you once imagined them as yours - emotionally, sexually, ideologically - and that claim has been violated. It’s “fatal” because it keeps the bond alive, even as it turns it into a weapon. The speaker is admitting dependence while trying to sound sovereign. That contradiction is pure Strindberg: the ego posturing as judge and executioner while secretly begging for the verdict to matter.

Contextually, this fits Strindberg’s late-19th-century dramas and prose, where marriage becomes a laboratory for humiliation, jealousy, and social anxiety. His work is famous (and infamous) for treating heterosexual love as a battleground shaped by gender roles and status, not a refuge from them. The sentence reads like a stage direction for a relationship collapsing in real time: love doesn’t disappear; it switches uniforms. That’s why it stings. It’s not romantic. It’s diagnostic.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Strindberg, August. (2026, January 16). I hated her now with a hatred more fatal than indifference because it was the other side of love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hated-her-now-with-a-hatred-more-fatal-than-135472/

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Strindberg, August. "I hated her now with a hatred more fatal than indifference because it was the other side of love." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hated-her-now-with-a-hatred-more-fatal-than-135472/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I hated her now with a hatred more fatal than indifference because it was the other side of love." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hated-her-now-with-a-hatred-more-fatal-than-135472/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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August Strindberg (January 22, 1849 - May 14, 1912) was a Dramatist from Sweden.

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