"I have a child and I'm a parent first of all"
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The second clause tightens the screw. “I’m a parent first of all” isn’t just personal identity; it’s a hierarchy of legitimacy. In the entertainment economy, where women are often expected to be endlessly available - for shoots, press, reinvention - declaring a primary role is a refusal of total access. It also doubles as reputation management. “Actress” can be coded, unfairly, as frivolous or morally flexible; “parent” reads as grounded, serious, safe. The subtext is: judge me by adult responsibilities, not by a red-carpet narrative.
There’s a quiet gender politics here, too. Male stars rarely need to announce fatherhood as a moral alibi; motherhood gets treated as both a liability and a public-interest storyline. Scorupco’s phrasing sidesteps sentimentality and keeps the claim practical: my life has constraints, and they’re non-negotiable. It’s less confession than contract.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Scorupco, Izabella. (2026, January 17). I have a child and I'm a parent first of all. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-child-and-im-a-parent-first-of-all-56303/
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Scorupco, Izabella. "I have a child and I'm a parent first of all." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-child-and-im-a-parent-first-of-all-56303/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have a child and I'm a parent first of all." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-child-and-im-a-parent-first-of-all-56303/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.





