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Parenting & Family Quote by Patti Smith

"I have a daughter who's 11 years old. Maybe she'll grow up independent and really really heavy and become a movie star and she'll play me in my life story"

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There is a punk prayer tucked inside this offhand joke: a mother imagining her kid not just surviving the world, but rewriting the script of what’s allowed to count as a “leading lady.” Patti Smith slides from tenderness to mischief in one breath. The daughter is 11, which is to say she’s still in the pre-judgment window, before the culture starts itemizing a girl’s body and sanding down her edges. Smith preemptively rejects that future audit with three loaded wishes: independent, really really heavy, movie star.

“Heavy” lands like a dare. It’s body-positive before that vocabulary hardened into branding, but it’s also Smith’s broader aesthetic: weight as presence, as seriousness, as refusal to be made small. The doubled “really really” keeps it conversational while insisting on the point; she’s not politely asking for acceptance, she’s pushing back on the expectation that femininity must be light, contained, easy to film.

Then the punchline: the daughter playing Patti Smith in the biopic. It’s funny because it’s impossible (the child can’t literally play her mother’s life without the timeline collapsing), but that impossibility is the point. Smith imagines legacy as something the child can claim, remix, and profit from, not just inherit as trauma or obligation. Underneath the humor is a radical maternal fantasy: your kid becomes herself so completely that she can interpret you, not merely resemble you. In an era that often treats women artists as anomalies, Smith sketches a lineage where the next generation gets to be bigger - physically, creatively, culturally - and still gets top billing.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Patti. (2026, January 16). I have a daughter who's 11 years old. Maybe she'll grow up independent and really really heavy and become a movie star and she'll play me in my life story. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-daughter-whos-11-years-old-maybe-shell-121037/

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Smith, Patti. "I have a daughter who's 11 years old. Maybe she'll grow up independent and really really heavy and become a movie star and she'll play me in my life story." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-daughter-whos-11-years-old-maybe-shell-121037/.

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"I have a daughter who's 11 years old. Maybe she'll grow up independent and really really heavy and become a movie star and she'll play me in my life story." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-daughter-whos-11-years-old-maybe-shell-121037/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Patti Smith (born December 20, 1946) is a Musician from USA.

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