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Life & Wisdom Quote by Sara Paretsky

"I have a friend who lives in the South Side of Chicago. I helped out at a church charity there where they try to give a bit of cohesion to a desperate area. Everyone was very welcoming"

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Paretsky’s line reads like a quiet rebuttal to a whole genre of urban folklore: the reflexive story about the South Side as a shorthand for danger, decay, and moral failure. Instead of leading with fear, she leads with relationship - “I have a friend” - then with service - “I helped out” - and only then names the place. That sequencing matters. It refuses the drive-by gaze. The South Side isn’t a cautionary backdrop; it’s a community you enter through trust and labor.

The phrase “a bit of cohesion” is doing heavy lifting. It’s modest, almost understated, and that understatement is strategic: she doesn’t romanticize charity as salvation. Cohesion suggests social glue - neighbors, institutions, routines - the stuff that makes survival possible when policy, capital, and attention have largely moved on. Calling the area “desperate” acknowledges structural deprivation without turning residents into symbols. Desperation here describes conditions, not character.

Then comes the quiet twist: “Everyone was very welcoming.” It punctures the audience’s likely preconceptions. Welcoming from whom? From the people a mainstream narrative often treats as threatening, faceless, or broken. In a city as segregated - and sensationalized - as Chicago, that sentence operates like a moral mirror: what if the real distance isn’t physical, but manufactured by fear and media? Paretsky, a crime novelist who understands how stories shape public imagination, uses plain reportage to re-story a neighborhood with dignity, without pretending the hardship isn’t real.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Paretsky, Sara. (2026, January 16). I have a friend who lives in the South Side of Chicago. I helped out at a church charity there where they try to give a bit of cohesion to a desperate area. Everyone was very welcoming. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-friend-who-lives-in-the-south-side-of-90649/

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Paretsky, Sara. "I have a friend who lives in the South Side of Chicago. I helped out at a church charity there where they try to give a bit of cohesion to a desperate area. Everyone was very welcoming." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-friend-who-lives-in-the-south-side-of-90649/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have a friend who lives in the South Side of Chicago. I helped out at a church charity there where they try to give a bit of cohesion to a desperate area. Everyone was very welcoming." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-friend-who-lives-in-the-south-side-of-90649/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Sara Paretsky

Sara Paretsky (born June 8, 1947) is a Author from USA.

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