"I have a girlfriend, but I don't really want to talk about her. I won't name her. She isn't in show business, has nothing to do with it. So I'd rather just keep her out of it"
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The phrasing matters. “I have a girlfriend” is plain, almost dutiful, as if he knows the question is unavoidable. Then he pivots hard: “but I don’t really want to talk about her.” That “really” softens the edge just enough to keep him likable; he’s not attacking the audience, he’s declining the transaction. The repetition of “I won’t” and “I’d rather” performs control in a space where actors are often expected to be endlessly available.
The key subtext is his insistence that her value is precisely her non-celebrity. “She isn’t in show business” functions like a protective spell: she hasn’t agreed to the terms of fame, so she shouldn’t pay its costs. He’s also separating his public persona from his private life, resisting the conflation that teen-idol stardom invites, where fans are encouraged to treat an actor’s real relationships as plot twists.
In an era before “privacy” became a celebrity brand, Perry frames it as basic decency: keep the innocent bystander out of the blast radius.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Perry, Luke. (2026, January 16). I have a girlfriend, but I don't really want to talk about her. I won't name her. She isn't in show business, has nothing to do with it. So I'd rather just keep her out of it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-girlfriend-but-i-dont-really-want-to-88434/
Chicago Style
Perry, Luke. "I have a girlfriend, but I don't really want to talk about her. I won't name her. She isn't in show business, has nothing to do with it. So I'd rather just keep her out of it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-girlfriend-but-i-dont-really-want-to-88434/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have a girlfriend, but I don't really want to talk about her. I won't name her. She isn't in show business, has nothing to do with it. So I'd rather just keep her out of it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-girlfriend-but-i-dont-really-want-to-88434/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.








