"I have a great husband, great parents and in-laws, and I have help with a nanny. It's not easy, but there are others who do it every day and don't have a high-profile job as I do"
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The line “It’s not easy” preserves the emotional truth of parenting without performing martyrdom. Then she pivots: “there are others who do it every day.” That move widens the frame from personal struggle to structural comparison. Matlin’s real subject is credibility. Public sympathy for famous mothers is notoriously conditional: you’re allowed to be overwhelmed, but only if you also confess your advantages. She threads that needle by acknowledging both the strain and the asymmetry.
The subtext lands as a quiet rebuke of celebrity culture’s favorite narrative, where high-profile women are cast either as effortlessly polished superheroes or pampered complainers. Matlin refuses both roles. “High-profile job” is a euphemism that keeps the tone humble while still naming what matters: flexibility, money, and public attention as a kind of buffer. The intent feels less like absolution-seeking than solidarity-building - a reminder that the hard part isn’t motherhood’s drama, it’s the uneven distribution of support that decides how survivable it is.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Matlin, Marlee. (2026, January 16). I have a great husband, great parents and in-laws, and I have help with a nanny. It's not easy, but there are others who do it every day and don't have a high-profile job as I do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-great-husband-great-parents-and-in-laws-115187/
Chicago Style
Matlin, Marlee. "I have a great husband, great parents and in-laws, and I have help with a nanny. It's not easy, but there are others who do it every day and don't have a high-profile job as I do." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-great-husband-great-parents-and-in-laws-115187/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have a great husband, great parents and in-laws, and I have help with a nanny. It's not easy, but there are others who do it every day and don't have a high-profile job as I do." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-great-husband-great-parents-and-in-laws-115187/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

