"I have a holistic need to work and to have huge ties of love in my life. I can't imagine eschewing one for the other"
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The clever pivot is “huge ties of love.” Not “a family” in the Hallmark sense, not even “romance” as a single relationship, but ties plural: a web of attachment that can include partner, children, friends, collaborators. It’s an expansive definition that makes the usual binary (career vs. home) feel small, even a little unserious. She’s also implicitly insisting that love is not the opposite of work; it’s infrastructure. It’s what makes the intensity survivable.
“I can’t imagine eschewing one for the other” lands with the calm authority of someone who’s watched the culture demand sacrifice as proof of sincerity. The verb “eschewing” is almost prim, a reminder that renunciation is often performed for public approval. Streep refuses the performance. Coming from an actress whose career spans decades of both prestige and mass visibility, the subtext is practical as much as philosophical: longevity isn’t just talent, it’s permission. She’s arguing for a life designed without the false drama of trade-offs, and making that sound not radical, but normal.
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Streep, Meryl. (2026, January 17). I have a holistic need to work and to have huge ties of love in my life. I can't imagine eschewing one for the other. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-holistic-need-to-work-and-to-have-huge-28671/
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Streep, Meryl. "I have a holistic need to work and to have huge ties of love in my life. I can't imagine eschewing one for the other." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-holistic-need-to-work-and-to-have-huge-28671/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have a holistic need to work and to have huge ties of love in my life. I can't imagine eschewing one for the other." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-holistic-need-to-work-and-to-have-huge-28671/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.







