"I have a lot of male friends"
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“I have a lot of male friends” sounds like a tossed-off aside, but from Joan Collins it lands as a statement of posture: unbothered, socially fluent, and refusing to apologize for moving easily through male-dominated rooms. Collins built her public identity in an era when a woman’s proximity to men was treated as either leverage or liability. The line plays with that suspicion. It’s disarmingly plain, almost stubbornly non-explanatory, which is the point: she doesn’t offer the comforting footnote (“strictly platonic,” “like brothers,” “my husband doesn’t mind”). She just claims the fact.
The subtext is power, and specifically a kind of old-school celebrity power. Collins isn’t describing a support network; she’s signaling access. “Male friends” in her world can mean directors, producers, journalists, financiers, gatekeepers - the people who historically decided which women were “difficult,” “desirable,” or “done.” Saying she has many of them reframes her not as a person acted upon by that machinery, but as someone who navigates it on her own terms.
There’s also a sly rebuke to the moral accounting women are forced into. Men collect female friends and it reads as charm; women do the same and it’s interrogated. Collins’ phrasing refuses the interrogation by denying it any drama. In the Collins mythology - glamour as armor, wit as deflection - friendship becomes a social weapon: proof she can be admired without being owned, surrounded without being cornered.
The subtext is power, and specifically a kind of old-school celebrity power. Collins isn’t describing a support network; she’s signaling access. “Male friends” in her world can mean directors, producers, journalists, financiers, gatekeepers - the people who historically decided which women were “difficult,” “desirable,” or “done.” Saying she has many of them reframes her not as a person acted upon by that machinery, but as someone who navigates it on her own terms.
There’s also a sly rebuke to the moral accounting women are forced into. Men collect female friends and it reads as charm; women do the same and it’s interrogated. Collins’ phrasing refuses the interrogation by denying it any drama. In the Collins mythology - glamour as armor, wit as deflection - friendship becomes a social weapon: proof she can be admired without being owned, surrounded without being cornered.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Collins, Joan. (2026, January 15). I have a lot of male friends. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-lot-of-male-friends-75022/
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Collins, Joan. "I have a lot of male friends." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-lot-of-male-friends-75022/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have a lot of male friends." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-lot-of-male-friends-75022/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.
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