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Creativity Quote by Debbie Harry

"I have a lot of regrets, but I'm not going to think of them as regrets"

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Debbie Harry’s line lands like a shrug with teeth: an admission of damage paired with a refusal to give that damage the final word. It’s not the glossy pop-star “no regrets” cliche; she keeps the regrets on the table, then changes the label. That small pivot is the whole move - not denial, but control. She’s describing a survival tactic as much as a philosophy: you can remember the mess without letting it become your identity.

The subtext feels inseparable from Harry’s era and persona. Blondie’s rise came out of a New York scene that treated risk like oxygen - clubs, drugs, exploitation, a music industry that loved women as images and punished them for being human. For an artist who navigated fame, predation, and reinvention, “regret” can be a trap word, the kind that invites moral accounting from outsiders: What would you undo? What did you “learn”? Her refusal reads like boundary-setting against that narrative.

It also works because it’s emotionally specific while staying open-ended. “A lot” suggests real losses, not cute mistakes, but she won’t narrate them for your consumption. There’s defiance in the grammar: the second clause overwrites the first in real time, like editing a myth while it’s still being told. In a culture obsessed with confession and trauma-as-content, Harry offers a cooler, more radical option: keep the past, ditch the self-punishment.

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Harry, Debbie. (2026, January 17). I have a lot of regrets, but I'm not going to think of them as regrets. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-lot-of-regrets-but-im-not-going-to-think-57915/

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Harry, Debbie. "I have a lot of regrets, but I'm not going to think of them as regrets." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-lot-of-regrets-but-im-not-going-to-think-57915/.

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"I have a lot of regrets, but I'm not going to think of them as regrets." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-lot-of-regrets-but-im-not-going-to-think-57915/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Debbie Harry (born July 1, 1945) is a Musician from USA.

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