"I have a love-hate relationship with performing"
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The phrase “love-hate” does two jobs at once. It’s a confession that protects her credibility. She loves the communion: the rush when a room locks in, the rare feeling of being fully understood without explanation. She hates the machinery: travel, vocal risk, the expectation to be transcendent on schedule, the weird intimacy of being watched by strangers while also being treated like a product. The ambiguity is the point. It refuses the tidy narrative that real artists are endlessly grateful and endlessly game.
There’s also subtext about control. Studio work offers revision, privacy, and the ability to craft an ideal version of yourself. Live performance yanks that power away and replaces it with adrenaline and exposure. For a vocalist whose instrument is her body, “hate” can mean fear: of off nights, aging, criticism, even the loneliness that can follow applause.
Brightman’s line reads less like complaint than boundary-setting. It makes space for ambivalence in a culture that demands constant delight, reminding us that professionalism often looks like showing up for what you love, even when you don’t love the whole experience.
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| Topic | Music |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brightman, Sarah. (2026, January 15). I have a love-hate relationship with performing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-love-hate-relationship-with-performing-113009/
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Brightman, Sarah. "I have a love-hate relationship with performing." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-love-hate-relationship-with-performing-113009/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have a love-hate relationship with performing." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-love-hate-relationship-with-performing-113009/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





