"I have a right to my anger, and I don't want anybody telling me I shouldn't be, that it's not nice to be, and that something's wrong with me because I get angry"
About this Quote
The repetition of “I don’t want anybody telling me” matters. Waters isn’t arguing with an opponent so much as naming the chorus that polices tone: pundits, colleagues, even sympathetic liberals who prefer calm dissent because it’s easier to digest. “Not nice” is the key tell. Niceness is positioned as a social tax levied on women, and especially Black women in public life, where assertiveness gets recoded as irrationality. Her anger is portrayed as evidence, and the counter-argument she anticipates is pathologizing: “something’s wrong with me.”
Contextually, Waters’ career has unfolded in a media ecosystem that rewards outrage when it comes from certain mouths and condemns it when it threatens existing hierarchies. The quote works because it yanks the conversation away from tone and back to stakes: if anger is treated as illegitimate, the grievances that produce it can be dismissed without being answered. In that sense, her line is less a confession than a strategy - protecting anger as a form of political clarity.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anger |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Waters, Maxine. (2026, January 16). I have a right to my anger, and I don't want anybody telling me I shouldn't be, that it's not nice to be, and that something's wrong with me because I get angry. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-right-to-my-anger-and-i-dont-want-99762/
Chicago Style
Waters, Maxine. "I have a right to my anger, and I don't want anybody telling me I shouldn't be, that it's not nice to be, and that something's wrong with me because I get angry." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-right-to-my-anger-and-i-dont-want-99762/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have a right to my anger, and I don't want anybody telling me I shouldn't be, that it's not nice to be, and that something's wrong with me because I get angry." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-a-right-to-my-anger-and-i-dont-want-99762/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




