"I have always been principally interested in men for sex. I've always thought any sane woman would be a lover of women because loving men is such a mess. I have always wished I'd fall in love with a woman. Damn"
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The first line is deliberately abrasive. “Interested in men for sex” strips romance of its cultural prestige and hints at a pragmatic bargain: men as bodies, not destiny. Then she pivots to the provocation that does the real work: “any sane woman” would prefer women. That’s not a literal claim so much as a pressure test. Greer frames attraction as a rational response to lived experience: if men are “such a mess,” why wouldn’t women seek each other out? It’s a feminist argument smuggled in the language of libido, challenging the idea that heterosexual coupling is “natural” rather than habitual, coerced, or simply over-rewarded by culture.
The “I have always wished...” line exposes the ache beneath the polemic. Wishing to fall in love with a woman isn’t a declaration of identity; it’s an admission that politics doesn’t rewire longing on command. That last, clipped “Damn” is key: it’s frustration at the gap between what seems emotionally and ethically sensible and what her own desire actually does. In the context of second-wave feminism, Greer is also poking at the era’s debates about political lesbianism, using humor and exasperation to show how slogans collide with the stubborn specificity of private want.
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Greer, Germaine. (2026, January 17). I have always been principally interested in men for sex. I've always thought any sane woman would be a lover of women because loving men is such a mess. I have always wished I'd fall in love with a woman. Damn. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-been-principally-interested-in-men-54690/
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Greer, Germaine. "I have always been principally interested in men for sex. I've always thought any sane woman would be a lover of women because loving men is such a mess. I have always wished I'd fall in love with a woman. Damn." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-been-principally-interested-in-men-54690/.
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"I have always been principally interested in men for sex. I've always thought any sane woman would be a lover of women because loving men is such a mess. I have always wished I'd fall in love with a woman. Damn." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-been-principally-interested-in-men-54690/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




