"I have always found it difficult to wait for things - whether it was to see my father or sailor brother, Alan, again after their long sea trips, or the chance of a better job, or even new curtains"
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The phrasing works because it refuses to romanticize absence. “Whether it was” sets up a list that should feel mismatched, then reveals how waiting flattens experience. War-era and maritime Britain sit quietly in the background: families split by travel and duty, reunions dictated by schedules and tides. Neagle’s career also shadows the line. An actress’s life is structured by auditions, openings, and the verdicts of gatekeepers. “The chance of a better job” reads like a polite understatement for the precariousness of performing work, where aspiration is constant and control is limited.
Then she lands on “new curtains,” not as a punchline but as a telling admission: waiting leaks into the home. It’s a miniature of the same feeling - wanting the world to change, wanting proof that time has moved forward. The intent feels less like confession than self-portrait: a woman who measures life by arrivals, upgrades, and returns, and who knows that the hardest part isn’t loss or labor, but the enforced stillness between them.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Neagle, Anna. (2026, January 16). I have always found it difficult to wait for things - whether it was to see my father or sailor brother, Alan, again after their long sea trips, or the chance of a better job, or even new curtains. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-found-it-difficult-to-wait-for-138898/
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Neagle, Anna. "I have always found it difficult to wait for things - whether it was to see my father or sailor brother, Alan, again after their long sea trips, or the chance of a better job, or even new curtains." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-found-it-difficult-to-wait-for-138898/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have always found it difficult to wait for things - whether it was to see my father or sailor brother, Alan, again after their long sea trips, or the chance of a better job, or even new curtains." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-found-it-difficult-to-wait-for-138898/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




