"I have always had a dread of becoming a passenger in life"
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For a woman born into a system designed to make her ornamental, "a dread of becoming a passenger in life" lands like a small rebellion in a perfectly upholstered room. Princess Margaret is reaching for the language of agency, but she’s doing it with the rueful self-awareness of someone who knows how little steering wheel she’s actually been handed. A passenger doesn’t choose the destination, doesn’t control the speed, and can’t pretend the route is theirs. That’s the horror: not laziness, but irrelevance.
The line works because it frames privilege as confinement. Royalty sells the fantasy of an elevated life; Margaret flips it into a fear of being carried along by protocol, public expectation, and family duty. The subtext isn’t just "I want freedom". It’s "my life is constantly narrated by other people" - courtiers, tabloids, constitutional limits, even the monarch’s needs. You can hear the pressure of the "spare" role: close enough to power to feel its gravity, far enough to be denied its purpose.
Context sharpens the sting. Margaret’s adulthood played out in an era when the monarchy was modernizing in public while staying stubbornly antique in private. Her most famous choices - romances scrutinized, divorces judged, glamour weaponized against her - read like attempts to grab the wheel and being scolded for touching it. The dread she names is existential but also practical: to be reduced to a figure in the back seat, waving, while life happens somewhere up front.
The line works because it frames privilege as confinement. Royalty sells the fantasy of an elevated life; Margaret flips it into a fear of being carried along by protocol, public expectation, and family duty. The subtext isn’t just "I want freedom". It’s "my life is constantly narrated by other people" - courtiers, tabloids, constitutional limits, even the monarch’s needs. You can hear the pressure of the "spare" role: close enough to power to feel its gravity, far enough to be denied its purpose.
Context sharpens the sting. Margaret’s adulthood played out in an era when the monarchy was modernizing in public while staying stubbornly antique in private. Her most famous choices - romances scrutinized, divorces judged, glamour weaponized against her - read like attempts to grab the wheel and being scolded for touching it. The dread she names is existential but also practical: to be reduced to a figure in the back seat, waving, while life happens somewhere up front.
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