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Life & Wisdom Quote by Robert Cormier

"I have always had a sense that we are all pretty much alone in life, particularly in adolescence"

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Cormier’s line lands like a whispered confession, then reveals itself as a thesis statement for a whole strain of late-20th-century young adult fiction: the adult world isn’t a safety net, it’s a maze. The phrase “pretty much alone” is doing careful work. It’s not melodramatic solitude, not the poetic loneliness of a diary entry; it’s the mundane, practical isolation of realizing that your fears, desires, and moral choices aren’t automatically legible to anyone else. “Pretty much” carries the shrug of someone who’s tested the alternatives - parents, teachers, friends - and found their help conditional, partial, or compromised.

By singling out adolescence, Cormier isn’t romanticizing teenage angst; he’s pinpointing a developmental ambush. Adolescence is when you first notice the gap between what institutions promise and what they deliver. You’re old enough to see hypocrisy, young enough to lack leverage. That’s the engine of Cormier’s best-known work, where cruelty isn’t an aberration but a system, and “belonging” often means consenting to it.

The subtext is quietly accusatory: loneliness isn’t just a personal feeling, it’s socially produced. Schools sort; peer groups police; adults retreat into platitudes. Cormier, writing in an era that still expected YA novels to be reassuring, uses this kind of stark psychological realism as a refusal to lie to readers. The intent isn’t to depress; it’s to validate the sense that if you feel isolated at fourteen, you’re not broken. You’re awake.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cormier, Robert. (2026, January 15). I have always had a sense that we are all pretty much alone in life, particularly in adolescence. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-had-a-sense-that-we-are-all-pretty-163594/

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Cormier, Robert. "I have always had a sense that we are all pretty much alone in life, particularly in adolescence." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-had-a-sense-that-we-are-all-pretty-163594/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have always had a sense that we are all pretty much alone in life, particularly in adolescence." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-always-had-a-sense-that-we-are-all-pretty-163594/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Robert Cormier (July 17, 1925 - November 2, 2000) was a Author from USA.

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