"I have been five minutes too late all my life-time!"
About this Quote
As an eighteenth-century dramatist, Cowley wrote for a culture obsessed with timing as social competence. In a world of cards, calls, and crowded drawing rooms, arriving at the right moment was status. To be “five minutes too late” suggests missed introductions, opportunities taken by someone else, the joke already told, the flirtation already redirected. It’s the pain of realizing you’re not catastrophically unlucky, just chronically out of sync.
The subtext is sharper than self-pity. It’s an indictment of systems that reward the already-placed and punish the merely-almost-there. Five minutes can be the difference between being seen as charmingly spontaneous and being treated as an inconvenience. Cowley’s wit lies in letting the speaker sound lightly rueful while quietly confessing a deeper fear: that one’s whole life can be defined not by what you did wrong, but by the moment you arrived when the door was already closing.
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Cowley, Hannah. (2026, January 16). I have been five minutes too late all my life-time! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-been-five-minutes-too-late-all-my-life-time-112097/
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Cowley, Hannah. "I have been five minutes too late all my life-time!" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-been-five-minutes-too-late-all-my-life-time-112097/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have been five minutes too late all my life-time!" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-been-five-minutes-too-late-all-my-life-time-112097/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.












