"I have been very happy with my homes, but homes really are no more than the people who live in them"
About this Quote
The phrasing is doing two jobs at once. "Very happy" signals gratitude without sounding entitled, a neat trick for someone whose residences were also symbols of national wealth and status. Then the pivot: "but homes really are..". The "really" carries the corrective tone of someone waving away materialism, even as her position makes material setting unavoidable. It's modesty with an edge: yes, there are houses, but the real story is the people inside.
Subtextually, it’s a defense of domestic centrality at a time when the culture was renegotiating gender roles and family structure. In the Reagan era, the family was routinely framed as the antidote to social disorder; this quote plays along, suggesting stability is interpersonal, not architectural. It also protects the Reagans from critique: no matter the square footage, the moral value is portable, and the credit belongs to relationships, not property.
It works because it repackages privilege as intimacy, making the political feel personal - and therefore harder to argue with.
Quote Details
| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Reagan, Nancy. (2026, January 18). I have been very happy with my homes, but homes really are no more than the people who live in them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-been-very-happy-with-my-homes-but-homes-15646/
Chicago Style
Reagan, Nancy. "I have been very happy with my homes, but homes really are no more than the people who live in them." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-been-very-happy-with-my-homes-but-homes-15646/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have been very happy with my homes, but homes really are no more than the people who live in them." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-been-very-happy-with-my-homes-but-homes-15646/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



