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Love Quote by Mother Teresa

"I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love"

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It’s a line that turns pain into proof of progress, and that reversal is exactly why it lands with such force. Mother Teresa offers a paradox that behaves like a moral lever: “until it hurts” admits the body’s revolt against self-giving, then reclassifies that revolt as the threshold where love stops being a feeling and becomes a discipline. The rhetoric doesn’t deny suffering; it recruits it. Hurt becomes not a warning sign but a sacrament of sorts, a checkpoint that tells you you’ve finally stopped protecting the self.

The subtext is harder-edged than the sentiment suggests. This is a spiritual technology for endurance, aimed at people who might otherwise quit when compassion gets inconvenient. By promising that there can be “no more hurt,” she’s not making a clinical claim about emotions; she’s describing a conversion of attention. When you commit past the point of comfort, the self’s accounting system (What am I losing? What am I owed?) starts to collapse. What replaces it is a kind of single-mindedness: love as practice, not reciprocity.

Context matters. Teresa’s public identity was built on proximity to extreme poverty, illness, and abandonment; she’s speaking from a tradition (Catholic mysticism) that treats suffering as potentially meaningful when yoked to service. That makes the quote both inspiring and demanding. It offers solace to caregivers and believers, while also risking a dangerous implication: that pain is always purifying, and that boundaries are a lesser virtue. Its power lies in that tension - a rallying cry that can sustain radical compassion, or sanctify burnout, depending on who’s holding it.

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Mother Teresa (August 26, 1910 - September 5, 1997) was a Leader from Albania.

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