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Parenting & Family Quote by Gregory Harrison

"I have four kids; three girls and a boy. The oldest girl is 13, and has her own social life now, so there's a bit of begrudging cooperation there. It's tough"

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Parenting gets sold as a feel-good montage; Harrison gives you the B-roll: negotiation, friction, and the low-grade heartbreak of losing center stage in your own kid's life. The line lands because it refuses the heroic-parent posture. "Four kids; three girls and a boy" is delivered like a census report, a quick establishing shot that signals logistics over lyricism. Then the emotional pivot: "The oldest girl is 13" - not just an age, a switch flipping. Thirteen is when a child becomes a social creature with a world that doesn't need you to run it.

"Begrudging cooperation" is the quiet masterstroke. It frames the relationship as a temporary coalition between competing sovereignties: parent and adolescent. Cooperation implies rules, schedules, a shared household project; begrudging admits the resentment on both sides. He's not casting his daughter as a villain, and he's not pretending he's enlightened about it either. That self-awareness matters coming from an actor, someone whose job is to perform ease. Here, the performance drops, and what replaces it is a candid acknowledgement of status change: yesterday you were the director, today you're a supporting character.

"It's tough" is deliberately plain, almost anti-anecdote. No lesson, no punchline, no tidy sentiment about cherishing every moment. The subtext is grief disguised as practicality: the child is fine, thriving even, and that's exactly what makes it hard. In a culture that romanticizes "involved dads" while still rewarding stoicism, this is vulnerability without melodrama, a small admission that adolescence turns love into diplomacy.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Harrison, Gregory. (2026, January 15). I have four kids; three girls and a boy. The oldest girl is 13, and has her own social life now, so there's a bit of begrudging cooperation there. It's tough. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-four-kids-three-girls-and-a-boy-the-oldest-143919/

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Harrison, Gregory. "I have four kids; three girls and a boy. The oldest girl is 13, and has her own social life now, so there's a bit of begrudging cooperation there. It's tough." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-four-kids-three-girls-and-a-boy-the-oldest-143919/.

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"I have four kids; three girls and a boy. The oldest girl is 13, and has her own social life now, so there's a bit of begrudging cooperation there. It's tough." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-four-kids-three-girls-and-a-boy-the-oldest-143919/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Gregory Harrison (born May 31, 1950) is a Actor from USA.

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