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Success Quote by Vanessa Carlton

"I have gone from being a 21-year-old with wide eyes to a 24-year-old woman. With success comes a lot of responsibility and power"

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Carlton frames fame as a forced growth spurt, not a victory lap. The pivot from "wide eyes" to "woman" compresses three years into a before-and-after photo: innocence as a look you can wear, adulthood as something that lands on you. That phrasing matters. She is not saying she got older; she is saying she got assigned a new social role, one that comes with expectations about composure, gratitude, and polish. In pop, especially for young women, maturity is rarely self-defined. It is demanded.

"With success comes a lot of responsibility and power" sounds like a standard PR line until you hear the tension underneath it. Responsibility to whom: fans, label, press, the image economy that turns a person into a brand? Power is the interesting word, because it admits what artists are often trained to downplay: visibility is leverage. But it is also a spotlight that can burn. She is acknowledging that the same machinery that amplifies her voice can also script it, and that stepping into "power" invites scrutiny, projection, and the constant test of whether she deserves the platform.

The context is early-2000s pop stardom, an era that loved the narrative of the young female singer-songwriter as both authentic and easily managed. Carlton is quietly resisting the infantilization that comes with that package. She signals ambition without swagger, warning that success is not just a dream fulfilled; it is a new contract with the culture, one you have to learn to negotiate fast.

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Carlton, Vanessa. (2026, January 15). I have gone from being a 21-year-old with wide eyes to a 24-year-old woman. With success comes a lot of responsibility and power. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-gone-from-being-a-21-year-old-with-wide-154249/

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Carlton, Vanessa. "I have gone from being a 21-year-old with wide eyes to a 24-year-old woman. With success comes a lot of responsibility and power." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-gone-from-being-a-21-year-old-with-wide-154249/.

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"I have gone from being a 21-year-old with wide eyes to a 24-year-old woman. With success comes a lot of responsibility and power." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-gone-from-being-a-21-year-old-with-wide-154249/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Vanessa Carlton

Vanessa Carlton (born August 16, 1980) is a Musician from USA.

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