"I have great luck. I'm used to people dying and going away. Not used to it exactly - but I expect it. Like, whenever people go off on a trip, I save their phone messages because I think they might die"
About this Quote
The phone-message detail is the tell. It’s not poetic; it’s behavioral. Saving voicemails becomes a private disaster protocol, a tiny archive against the future’s erasure. In an era when our lives are mostly data, she’s describing a new kind of mourning prep: not letters in a shoebox, but cached evidence that someone existed and loved you back. It’s also a quiet admission of how unstable relationships can feel when your work, your industry, or your upbringing teaches you that people disappear without warning.
Coming from McGowan - an actress whose public life has been tangled with exploitation, backlash, and survival politics - the quote reads less like morbidity for its own sake and more like a worldview shaped by repeated rupture. The subtext is control: if you can’t stop people from leaving, you can at least preserve their last words. The intent isn’t to shock; it’s to make the anxious logic audible, so it stops sounding like a personal defect and starts sounding like a reasonable response to an unreasonable amount of loss.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mortality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McGowan, Rose. (2026, January 16). I have great luck. I'm used to people dying and going away. Not used to it exactly - but I expect it. Like, whenever people go off on a trip, I save their phone messages because I think they might die. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-great-luck-im-used-to-people-dying-and-110027/
Chicago Style
McGowan, Rose. "I have great luck. I'm used to people dying and going away. Not used to it exactly - but I expect it. Like, whenever people go off on a trip, I save their phone messages because I think they might die." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-great-luck-im-used-to-people-dying-and-110027/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have great luck. I'm used to people dying and going away. Not used to it exactly - but I expect it. Like, whenever people go off on a trip, I save their phone messages because I think they might die." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-great-luck-im-used-to-people-dying-and-110027/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










