"I have grown up alone. I've taken care of myself. I worked, earned money and was independent at 18"
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The subtext is class and gender without announcing itself. “Worked, earned money” lands like a rebuttal to the era’s expectation that a young woman’s security should come through attachment: family, marriage, patronage. Bergman’s emphasis on money is especially pointed in a profession built on being looked at. She’s not selling a romanticized image of hardship; she’s emphasizing competence, the unsexy infrastructure of freedom.
Context sharpens the edge. Bergman became a symbol of luminous “natural” integrity on screen, then a scandal magnet off it. This quote reads like an early claim to moral and practical self-possession: independence as character, not attitude. It also suggests a kind of emotional insulation. Growing up alone can produce strength, but also a refusal to ask permission, a willingness to choose desire over approval. That’s the hidden engine here: the same self-reliance that makes a star trustworthy on camera can make her terrifyingly unmanageable to the public that wants to own her.
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| Topic | Work Ethic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bergman, Ingrid. (2026, January 17). I have grown up alone. I've taken care of myself. I worked, earned money and was independent at 18. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-grown-up-alone-ive-taken-care-of-myself-i-31592/
Chicago Style
Bergman, Ingrid. "I have grown up alone. I've taken care of myself. I worked, earned money and was independent at 18." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-grown-up-alone-ive-taken-care-of-myself-i-31592/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have grown up alone. I've taken care of myself. I worked, earned money and was independent at 18." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-grown-up-alone-ive-taken-care-of-myself-i-31592/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





