"I have hardly any friends who aren't gay"
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The subtext carries a few barbs. It suggests a distrust of straight social codes: the pressure to be respectable, to dampen mess, to treat desire like something to manage rather than reveal. In the art world Emin came up through - the 1990s YBA scene, club culture, a Britain negotiating post-Thatcher identity - queer communities weren’t a niche; they were often the engine of nightlife, aesthetics, and emotional candor. Her statement nods to that ecosystem while quietly refusing the idea that “normal” is the default setting for intimacy.
It also works as a provocation because it flips the usual framing. Straightness is typically treated as invisible, unmarked. Emin marks it as the outlier in her life, not in a hostile way, but in a way that re-centers the world around the relationships that actually sustain her. The line reads like gossip, but it’s a social map - and a loyalty oath.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Emin, Tracey. (2026, January 15). I have hardly any friends who aren't gay. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-hardly-any-friends-who-arent-gay-74364/
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Emin, Tracey. "I have hardly any friends who aren't gay." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-hardly-any-friends-who-arent-gay-74364/.
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"I have hardly any friends who aren't gay." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-hardly-any-friends-who-arent-gay-74364/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






